Other babies, other stories

Adjusting your vision to love from freedom

April, 2020

” Just like nature, we shall grow thanks to tranquility, beauty, armony and love”

Debasish Mridha

This is one of the topics I wanted to talk about as it is understandable that as mothers we may feel a series of emotions when we witness other babies’ lives, it can be family or friends. A mix of conflicting feelings, doubts and questions without an answer that commonly generate sadness, frustration and impotence. It is only natural to feel this way as we are only humans, however, today I want to share these reflections you can consider to adjust your vision and be completely free in this situation:

Special stories

As Madres Fenix we completely love our celestial baby’s divine story, we know there are no mistakes and that if we wish things were different we would not be talking of our babies. In my case, if I wanted my girl would have gone to kindergarten, completed her studies or got married, then it simply wouldn’t be her. Our celestial babies are very special and they came for a specific time to fulfill their mission, once they did it they we free to return to love, to heaven, to God. When we see, share and play with other babies we confirm and reaffirm that each story is unique, individual and that no story is better than the other. Accepting this reality from the heart will allow us to enjoy our loved ones, those nephews, friends’ children and other babies in your life.

I love and expand

The moment your celestial baby turned you into a mother, he or she sowed in your heart the capacity of maternal love. Love is a universal and living force that embraces everything, it has no boundaries or limits. Sharing this love with other babies is a great way to connect to this source of love, sharing the gestures and tender affections. After my baby was born to heaven, I remember the first time I hold a baby in my arms, there I understood it was wonderful being able to celebrate his life, his own story, his essence and presence in my life. I felt free to love him without ties, to hold him, to smile at him, to contemplate him, to nurture me from his pure and innocent nature. Let’s not waste these enriching and beautiful experiences, let’s release all those beliefs of injustice and frustration and let freedom and love in. Let’s be free, let’s be a source welcoming love, the one that accepts and embraces. That wonderful capability of love your celestial baby gave you is to share it, to express it. Now you know that when you see other babies you are appreciating the divine plan, God’s plan in its purest expression that is lovingly reminding you there are no mistakes, that creation is perfect as your son or daughter is. With this certainty in the heart you can feel free and light to love and to celebrate everyone’s lives as the beautiful Madre Fenix that you are.

Tu instructora:

Patricia Mora
Life Coach Espiritual, Tanatóloga y Escritora

Es un hecho que los padres que tenemos uno o más bebés en el cielo necesitamos apoyo y orientación de calidad. Tenemos derecho a un espacio donde aprender y sentirnos contenidos y apoyados ante un duelo poco reconocido y sumamente doloroso. Después de ver a mis tres bebés trascender es mi misión transmitir mi experiencia, conocimientos y aprendizajes a cada ser humano que desea tomar una dirección de crecimiento, llena de significado y propósito.

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